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You can reach children with the life number 1 with loving care in the heart and promote their natural strength of character. In this blog article you will find many impulses that will help you achieve this goal. In addition, an exciting fantasy journey awaits you. It allows you to have a good time with your child and help your child radiate his inner strength.

Personality description of children with the life number 1 up to the age of twelve

Children with the life number 1 are already real bundles of energy in infancy. They can call an irrepressible strength, willpower and strength of character as well as a quick comprehension their own . Furthermore, these sensitive beings stand out through their sensitive and intuitive actions .

Curious bordercrossers 1er children are good observers and follow their lives with perseverance and consistency. In addition, driven by their natural curiosity and tireless spirit of research , they want to understand and grasp everything at a young age.

Going through life in a self-determined way These young people are real pioneers who, thanks to their active imagination, already know what they want and need in infancy. The determination, decision-making and strength of character of these children should be preserved and encouraged. Unfortunately, these character traits are also very stressful for parents and guardians, which often causes them to struggle to feel secure in their parental role.

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Challenging character traits of children with the life number 1

The parents of these lively and freedom-loving personalities need a lot of patience, humor and serenity to accompany their offspring. Responding particularly lovingly to the following character traits helps parents to maintain self-confidence and serenity:

Stubborn know-it-alls Due to their sparkling energy and curiosity, these children always push themselves to their limits. As a result, they sometimes appear know-it-all, stubborn and even stubborn to those around them. However, children of 1 feel restricted and trapped as soon as you try to steer their will in other directions.

Intense emotional life This aspect often proves to be a stressful challenge for parents, as these childrencan quickly switch back and forth between phases of euphoric mood and moments of deep depression. This volatile and intense emotional life turns out to be a problematic personality trait.

Support opportunities for children with the life number 1

Children with the life number 1 need a lot of freedom and clear guidance. If you master this balancing act as a parent, you will succeed in accompanying your children in their personal development with joy and serenity. Let the following recommendations guide and inspire you when designing relationships with your child:

Promoting the urge to explore When dealing with 1er children, it is essential to give the children the opportunity to get to the bottom of their powerful urge to explore and to live out this character side freely. When these children want to know something, they are persistent and tireless in their way of playing. Games that require them to disassemble and reassemble things satisfy their natural curiosity and encourage them to express their creativity freely.

Touches as confirmation of loveChildren with the number 1 need loving touches and a lot of physical contact. In education, you should attach particular importance to this aspect, because 1er children satisfy their need for love and affection through touch.

Learning to talk about one's own feelings These sensitive minds can easily be hurt with a thoughtless word or a wrong gesture. When they are offended, they usually hide their pain and repress the stressful emotional state. For this reason, you should support your child with this life number to talk about his feelings in infancy.

Personality description of the adolescent with the life number 1

In youth, personalities with the number 1 retain their strong desire for freedom and their need for independence. 1er personalities are sensitive, intuitive young people who have enormous energy potential and are eager to live life to the fullest and gain experience. These young people shape their search for identity in a rebellious way. 

They question their parents, the environment and the values of parental education. In addition, they want to determine their own lives: they are very anxious to defend their opinion and live out their need for freedom without it being restricted by their parents or other caregivers.

Challenging traits of the adolescent with the life number 1

These vibrant and powerful personalities need clear leadership and a lot of recognition and appreciation. Take into account the following character traits of your children in order to create a stable basis of trust.

"No one understands me" Adolescents with the life number 1 sometimes feel isolated and not understood. Their futile search for role models and people who understand them is the reason why they often withdraw. In this case , they accuse their fellow human beings of having no understanding for them and not perceiving their needs. If a child with the life number 1 insists on the role of the unperceived, the non-understood, it is difficult for him to develop social and relational competence. The adolescent feels abandoned and misunderstood.

Isolation and self-will In the process of finding its identity, this life number tends to rebel. She isolates herself from the parents, guardians or adults who want to help her find her way. Furthermore, young people with this number tend to perceive all the advice or recommendations they receive from their environment as restrictions on their freedom. Because of this, they are strongly distinguishing themselves from the adults in the environment.

Support opportunities for young people with the life number 1

As a parent, you can accompany your children's search for their own identity during puberty with these helpful tips:

Continuous relationship offer You can support young people with the life number 1 in their identity process by making them a continuous relationship offer. Parents and caregivers should try not to take the derogatory attitude towards them personally.

Lovingly setting boundaries1er personalities usually experience their own identity through confrontation and by testing their personal limits. As a parent, you are faced with the task of lovingly setting clear boundaries for your offspring, whereby an adequate degree of authority is important.

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Dr. Ernestina Mazza – Author, seminar leader and coachFor 20 years I have been accompanying people in trainings, seminars and individual sessions on their way. In this blog I share my knowledge and experience with you. I want to support you in recognizing your uniqueness and living your potential.

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