Children need to be very lenient with adults. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
Children with the life number 7 have a sensitive personality that needs clarity, liveliness and at the same time a lot of attention and attention. In this blog article, exciting tips and valuable opportunities await you to strengthen the personality and unique talents of your 7-child.
Personality description of children with the life number 7 to the age of twelve
Children with the life number 7 are very lively and sociable beings who are independent at an early age – around the age of four – and want to live out their need for freedom . In this sense, these young people strive from an early age to make independent experiences and to live self-determined. This allows them to take good care of themselves at a very early stage.
Attentive and intelligent observers It is characteristic of these independent personalities that they like to slip into the role of observer . This often creates a certain distance between them and their parents, fellow human beings or other caregivers. Not infrequently, these inventive minds confront their parents with their idiosyncratic initiatives and challenge their guardians with their plans. However, the parents soon realize that they can look at their 7-born children with a certain serenity, because children with this life number have a pronounced intelligence and maturity.
Adaptableand reliable friends 7-person personalities are already very reliable playmates and friends in early childhood. However, it is noticeable that these children in relationships in general – despite their friendly and open-minded nature – usually show a somewhat adapted behavior.
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Challenging character traits of children with the life number 7 to the age of twelve
Children with the life number 7 are sensitive beings who sometimes seem aloof and live in their fantasy world. Accompanying these personalities through their childhood is an exciting adventure. Raising these children can bring much joy to parents or caregivers and also provide opportunities for personal growth. Taking into account the following challenging personality aspects of this number helps parents to cheerfully approach the task of educating and consciously support their own children:
The urge for independence as a challenge These children are very interested in life, question many things and are already looking for answers as toddlers. They have a philosophical nature and in some cases show a pronounced interest in spirituality, philosophy and different cultures very early on.
Support opportunities for children with the life number 7 to the age of twelve
With the help of the following recommendations , you as parents can lovingly and consciously respond to your empathetic and imaginative children of 7 and optimally support the personal development and vitality of your children:
Fostering the spirit of research Adolescents with this life number need games that satisfy their spirit of research and quench their thirst for knowledge. Toys with moving parts, through the use of which the children can fathom different functions, are particularly suitable for this.
Strengthen relationships and friendships Motivate your child to maintain stable friendships and help them be open-minded with those around them. If the 7-child learns to be open to the variety of human character differences, he can avoid feeling excluded and withdrawing due to his mental maturity and independence.
Trust your child's wisdom Children with the life number 7 are characterized by their logical thinking and their quick comprehension and like to ask questions. Take these questions seriously and try to have detailed and calm conversations with your child to quench his thirst for knowledge. As a result, this wise young person feels accepted and appreciated in his nature.
Touch and affection as ways to promote relationship skills These children tend to immediately organize and clarify feelings and situations with the help of their minds. They try to fix the supposed chaos in their emotional world through rational thinking. This trait makes these personalities sometimes appear cool on the outside, also because they show a limited need for physical closeness. Nevertheless, as a parent, you should alwaysapproach your 7-child and make him continuous relationship offers.
Personality description of the adolescent with the life number 7
Children with the life number 7 are idiosyncratic and often even eccentric in the process of finding identity. In the wild period of puberty, their innovative spirit manifests itself and they discover their high ideals. As parents of such a diverse personality, you are challenged at this stage of life to look beyond your own ideas and to respond to your child with an open mind.
Making the world a better place with high ideals These often justice-oriented adolescents like to slip into the role of do-gooders during puberty and often pursue social goals that serve the well-being of humanity. They are involved in the social sector or are committed to environmental issues, freedom and equality. By assuming this role, they express their independent and freedom-loving spirit.
Parents should act as trustworthy role models Often young people with the life number 7 are disappointed and hurt when they realize that their parents, friends or other caregivers are not authentic or want to play something to them. It is not uncommon for these adolescents to withdraw without talking about the injury they have experienced.
Challenging traits of the adolescent with the life number 7
Youth of 7 long for clear leadership that recognizes their uniqueness and their strong need for retreat and tranquility. If parents take into account the individual needs of this number, they succeed in having open conversations and optimally accompanying the identity process of these young people. The following recommendations will help parents meet these demands:
Disguising one's own nature Adolescents with the life number 7 shape the search for their individuality in a very independent way. Sometimes, due to their independence and their need for freedom, they seem cool, even rejecting or unapproachable. However, these young people hide their sensitivity and the need for security, belonging and love only to preserve their freedom and independence. They therefore tend to want to be the director of their relationships and to direct them.
Support opportunities for young people with the life number 7
During puberty, the 7-a-teenager tends to make friends with older people. He enjoys spending time with adults, such as his grandparents, whom he readily listens to when they talk about their lives. These young people are often good observers who often surprise the adults around them with mature and thoughtful comments. This personality type needs in his childhood, and especially in puberty, when he tries to clarify the question of his own identity , the feeling of being taken seriously.
Accept the critical spiritIn order to strengthen the confidence and self-esteem of the pubescent children of 7, you should respond appreciatively to your offspring in conversations. As a parent or caregiver, you should take seriously and respect the opposing opinions and special views of the 7-year-old.
Courage as the key to self-development Support your offspring with the life number 7 to stand by their own opinion. In the course of this, however, avoid imposing your personal opinion on your offspring. Be sure to give the young adult an open worldview. The pubescent 7s should be allowed to gain different experiences that unfold their free spirit and their urge for independence. In addition, in the role of parent or educator, you are asked to work on yourself, to change yourself and to be honest with yourself.
The following exercise from my book "Happy Children, Serene Adults" also supports you in consciously strengthening your child's strength and sensitivity. Another focus of the exercise is on promoting communication skills and the perception of the feelings of your 7-child. (Exercise only available for members of the Premium Community with Premium Newsletter, see info text below)
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Sincerely,Ernestina
Dr. Ernestina Mazza – Author, seminar leader and coachFor 20 years I have been accompanying people in trainings, seminars and individual sessions on their way. In this blog I share my knowledge and experience with you. I want to support you in recognizing your uniqueness and living your potential.
Communication exercise for a child with the life number 7: The wind blows away the fear
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