Children need to be very lenient with adults. (Antoine de Saint-Exupéry)
In this blog article you will find many impulses, tips and possibilities to support the creative and sensitive personality of children and young people with the life number 9. Children's numerology brings clarity and foresight to the consideration of these exciting characters, who are characterized by deep contrasts.
Personality description of children with the life number 9 to the age of twelve
Children with the life number 9 are sensitive, empathetic and imaginative beings at heart, who at times seem dreamy because they often withdraw into the depths of their inner world.
A sensitive perceptionChildren with the life number 9 are therefore very compassionate beings who have a gentle and open-hearted effect on their environment. These qualities make them very popular with their fellow human beings. They are almost always surrounded by numerous friends of different ages who appreciate the social relationship skills of these young people.
An imaginative and creative inner world These young people can freely develop their rich imagination especially when they are given space and time to tell their stories and tell about their perceptions, experiences and adventures in their fantasy world. For personal growth, children of 9 need an environment in which they can freely develop their strong imagination. Their penchant for playing and staging their flourishing imagination should be supported by their parents.
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Challenging character traits of children with the life number 9 to the age of twelve
Children with the life number 9 are sensitive personalities in need of harmony. Taking into account the following character traits in the education and accompaniment of these children helps these adolescents to develop their talents and to develop the broad spectrum of their personality:
Blocking self-confidence through enormous adaptability From an early age, young 9-person personalities are able to adapt to local and social conditions. However, it can be problematic if 9-person children live out their adaptability in an extreme way. In this case, they tend to develop little initiative and fail to confidently make decisions and enforce them. They struggle to say "no" and tend to remain in uncomfortable situations. As a result, they lose the courage and strength to stand by themselves and their needs and to free themselves from burdens.
Anxiety and caution 9 children are often very anxious, long for deep security and need a loving acceptance to develop self-confidence and self-confidence. Often, from an early age, they prefer not to cause inconvenience to those around them. In this behavioral dynamic, they take a waiting position in the background and remain in this position until they are addressed. If, on the other hand, these sensitive personalities are consciously accepted by the parents and their sensitivity is accepted as a strength of character, the 9-year-old children succeed in developing a pronounced self-confidence.
A strong need for harmony These sensitive and highly sensitive children are like an emotional parameter of their environment. They internalize the stressful feelings, unresolved conflicts and unspoken emotions or emotional pain of their surroundings. It is not uncommon to observe, for example, that the changeable disposition of this life number unsettles parents or gives parents the feeling that they cannot help their offspring.
Support opportunities for children with the life number 9 to the age of twelve
Taking into account the following aspects of personality will help you, as a parent of children with the life number 9, to master the adventure of raising these special and sensitive characters with more serenity.
Responding to the child's fantasy world and curiosity In childhood, this life number is extremely sensitive and loving and needs a lot of affection and support. Above all, this child enjoys fairy tales and stories that he likes to tell himself or take up in the role of the listener. In addition, it is characteristic of this life number that it needs a close connection to older family members.
Honest communication supports mental well-being9-born children tend to act very empathetically and feel everything that happens in the family, especially when it comes to unspoken conflicts and intra-family tensions. They openly point out conflicts and, through what they say and how they express things, demonstrate the need to talk about the problems at stake.
Personality description of the young person with the life number 9
In puberty, the adolescent with the life number 9 is sensitive and empathetic and has a pronounced social competence. These adolescents are wise and possess good powers of observation.
Diversity in relationshipsDuring puberty, 9er personalities tend to support and want to help peers. They are very helpful and do not let their fellow human beings down. In close relationships with friends who are often older than themselves, these people find a kind of second family.
Basically, in this phase of adolescence, two different tendencies in this life number become apparent: On the one hand, these young people enter into friendships with older people, with whom they can exchange ideas about the deeper meaning of life. Sometimes older people are fascinated by the wisdom of these philosophically interested young people. On the other hand, these adolescents form bonds with peers and younger people, to whom they feel inwardly committed and therefore provide them with support.
Parents should make it clear to young people with the life number 9 in this phase of life that they also have to think about themselves and that demarcation is very important. The adolescent 9-youths should be reminded not to be taken advantage of and not only to give, but also to get something back from their fellow human beings.
Mysterious personality Because of this pattern of behavior, these characters are often difficult for outsiders to fathom in depth. On the outside, 9er personalities usually seem very closed despite their warm-heartedness. If you get too close to the adolescents with this life number, they withdraw to protect themselves. But other reaction patterns can also be observed: If these young people feel, for example, that their counterpart does not want to put pressure on them and approaches them out of honest interest, they willingly open the door to their inner soul world for these people.
Challenging traits of the young person with the life number 9
Taking into account the following aspects helps you as a parent or caregiver to live consciously and mindfully the task of raising this extraordinary and sensitive life number:
Confused on the way to one's own identity Young people with the life number 9 experience a deep longing to grow up. They want to determine themselves and make their own decisions. At the same time, however, these young people also feel the need and longing during puberty to continue living out their childhood and fantasy. The growing 9-born children long to take the security of their inner fantasy world into adulthood.
Support opportunities for young people with a life number of 9
Children with the life number 9 need attentive, understanding and loving support in the phase of growing up in order to be able to develop their sensitive nature and their diverse talents. The recommendations on the following pages will help you in the role of parent and educator to support your children of 9 in the best possible way to develop sensitivity and strength of character:
A healthy egoism as the key to personality development Young people with the life number 9 are very sensitive and are particularly attentive to the needs of their fellow human beings. Because of this trait, they often take responsibility for family members and peers and are often the rock in the surf for their environment. As guardians and parents, you should therefore make sure that these helpful personalities learn in early childhood not to forget about themselves.
Physical activity to support self-confidence Young people with this life number should definitely devote themselves to regular physical activity during puberty. A special feature of 9 personalities in this context is the need to associate their physical activity with a philosophical system.
It encourages these young people to be active regularly when they notice that a fit and healthy body contributes not only to their physical but also to their mental well-being.
Boost self-confidence Young people with the life number 9 tend to compare themselves with others in the phase of their identity and to orient themselves strongly towards their outside world in their search for their natural traits.
Living out the playful vein The academic performance of young people with the life number 9 is usually excellent. However, it is important to make sure that these young people learn something that they enjoy and enjoy, because because of their sense of duty, they often forget about their own interests. In puberty, these young people want to experience new things above all and in many cases already show an interest in spiritual and idealistic ways of life in this phase of life. Young people of 9 often become active in clubs, especially in groups with a social orientation.
In order to promote young people with the life number 9, I have decided for the fantasy journey and guided meditation "Perceive and grow the tree of life". On the one hand, it helps you both to feel closer to each other. On the other hand, it supports your child in developing a clear awareness of their own place in life and their inner center.
Thank you for reading this blog article. If you liked it or enjoyed the exercise, then it would be great if you tell us more about it in a comment. You are also welcome to share your experiences and observations with us on the subject. In addition, I would be very happy if you share the article and the exercise with others – in this way you can contribute to the fact that 9-born children are finally recognized by their caregivers in their wholeness and versatility.
Sincerely,Ernestina
Dr. Ernestina Mazza – Author, seminar leader and coachFor 20 years I have been accompanying people in trainings, seminars and individual sessions on their way. In this blog I share my knowledge and experience with you. I want to support you in recognizing your uniqueness and living your potential.
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