If you have the life number 1, then we recommend that you use your independence and your strength to achieve your goals.
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Characteristicsindependent, determined, ambitious, energetic
Dark sidesproud, selfish, headstrong
Character of the life number 1
People with the life number 1 are freedom-loving, independent, passionate, strong-willed and self-confident. But they can also be stubborn and indomitable, and sometimes even unreasonable. Charisma, expressiveness and popularity characterize this personality. They also have a role model effect in their environment and convince by the agreement that exists between their words and deeds.
People with this life number have a strong will and focus their attention on implementing their plans and intentions.
They have a creative spirit and experience the rhythm of their lives intensively and at high speed. Therefore, they feel impatient with other people, especially if they feel that they are too slow. Her sensitivity and also her ability to make visions, dreams and wishes come true are strong. With their determination and strong focus on their own visions and plans, they appear very independent to the outside world. A person who has the life number 1 is reluctant to be weak and indecisive and easily fears that a compromise could be interpreted as a weakness or even a disruption of the image of strength and determination. If the leadership role is recognized by others, the 1 can be magnanimous, but if it is provoked or rejected, it may become bossy, unreasonable and irritable, or may appear introverted, unsociable and capricious.
This number is most successful when acting alone, even when it is at the forefront of a group. Although it has the potential for constructive creativity, the 1 must be wary of unwise plans and a limited view.
The dark side of life number 1
Pioneers can be very dominant and opinionated. This character often becomes dominant because he has internalized the following belief: "I have to fight and assert myself." In addition, he becomes decisive when his size is underestimated and his competencies are questioned.
The life number 1 in relationships
People with the life number 1 repeatedly come into conflict with their fellow human beings because they hardly feel the need to express their own feelings to the other. They find it difficult to express in words the feelings and love they feel for the other. They believe that deeds, not words, count.
The independence of this personality often triggers the feeling in the other person that little value is placed on interpersonal relationships. For his fellow human beings, this freedom-loving spirit remains a closed book. His strength of character and determination unsettles others and gives the impression that the 1-personality has no interest in deep relationships and is only focused on its self-realization. In the depths of his soul, the 1er is actually a relationship person who likes to take on the protective role and supports the loved ones.
The life number 1 in the partnership
In order to live a fulfilling partnership, this person should be considerate of his partner. He should also avoid closing himself off and limiting his feelings towards his partner. The 1-person, even if he is not able to show feelings, needs the confirmation of being loved. Because of this, it is difficult for the 1er to get involved with the partner and to open up to him, especially if he is in trouble. When it comes to making decisions that affect life together, the 1 Series should open up to the point of view of its counterpart.
Family theme of the original family of life number 1
For people with this life number, their own parents, with whom they often have communication difficulties, are not a role model. They sometimes feel left alone. Her main theme is the "father" and often the relationship with this parent is conflictual and challenging. If the relationship with the father is conflictual or incomprehensible, the person may feel that they have to fight against the world in order to assert themselves.
Development-inhibiting beliefs of life number 1
"I have to do everything on my own. I'm responsible for everything."
The person with this life number often feels that he is responsible for everything all his life and feels a strong urge for independence. The behavior patterns of the 1-person are first and foremost to always have to be strong and not to be able to show weakness. The first steps to healing are when they forgive themselves, accept them as they are and say "no", learn.
"Life is a struggle."
Another behavioral strategy – at a high adrenaline level – is that the person feels that life is a struggle and they have to fight constantly. Due to this pressure, the person is extremely productive. And she could become addicted to that pressure. The behavior pattern of always running at full speed and performing high allows you to see your own power, but not to integrate your own shadows. To allow their own weaknesses. But at some point they feel meaninglessness and lack of motivation. Getting out of this pattern is a fundamental developmental step for this personality. But it is precisely this life crisis that she needs in order to be able to accept herself and holistically exhaust her strength by allowing herself regeneration breaks again and again in order to feel herself clearly.
"I have everything under control."
If this person has internalized this belief, he also feels the intense urge to take the leading position. She relies almost exclusively on her own skills and wants to be on the safe side. In order to develop serenity, she should try to understand the values, views, needs and goals of her fellow human beings.
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Self-confidently living the life number 1
Developing an encouraging inner dialogue
People with this life number should consciously take time to enter into dialogue with themselves and become calm inside. When they find it difficult to break their pattern of self-criticism, they pay attention to the way they criticize themselves. You should be more relaxed and polite towards yourself.
In the evening before falling asleep, they should consciously focus on their positive qualities for which they can be grateful, such as their intelligence, helpfulness or creativity.
Unfolding empathy
For harmonious interpersonal relationships, it is advisable for this person to develop his empathy in order to grasp the perspective of the other person.
If this personality learns to put itself in the position of the other person and to consciously look at the world from the perspective of the other person for a few moments, it succeeds in leading sustainable relationships. Due to her quick comprehension and the mature intuition she has, it could be that she has a tendency not to listen carefully to her counterpart in conversation. The 1er should learn to consciously listen to what his counterpart wants to tell him. In addition, he should not forget that relationships take time and want to be lived.
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Life tasks of life number 1
These people should learn:
- To shape one's own path without example or support from outside.
- To take care of yourself and trust your inner voice more than the opinions from outside.
- To develop their self-esteem and self-confidence.
- To continue to believe in oneself in the face of external resistance.
- Letting go of self-imposed pressure to learn to create a balancing act between periods of rest and periods of activity.
Recommendations for the self-development of the life number 1
- Exercise sufficiently.
- Time for self-reflection to become aware of one's own vision.
- Biography work or self-reflection to work through old injuries and to grow personally.
- Strengthen body awareness through bodywork such as osteopathy, cranio-sacral therapy, shiatsu or massage.
- Develop a loving and appreciative inner dialogue.
- Learning to say "no" with a clear conscience.
Video on life number 1
Characteristics and vibration of life number 1
Male archetype of life number 1warrior, pioneer, father
Male shadow archetype of life number 1 Rebel, Destroyer
Female archetype of life number 1 Amazon
Female shadow archetype of life number 1 Rebel
Virtue of Life Number 1 Courage
Spiritual mission of the life number 1 Accept your own mistakes, learn from them.
Affirmation for the life number 1I am unique and valuable.
Bach flower mixture for the life number 1 Olive, Oak, Honeysuckle, Pine, Rock Rose
Australian bush flowers for life number 1 Turkey Bush, Mulla Mulla, Red Lily
Gemstones for life number 1 Jasper, Malachite
Color for life number 1 Red
Root numbers
(10/1 equals 1)
19/10/1 – Desire for freedom and charisma
This number shows a personality that needs a lot of space to develop. It is a personality who likes to be the center of attention and wants to make an important contribution to society. A challenge for this number is to learn that they really take care of themselves and nurture moments of loneliness inwardly in order to be able to perceive themselves authentically. This person is empathetic, has a natural charisma and leadership qualities. The person with this life number should find a framework in which he dares to stand by himself and have a positive opinion of himself. This person can rely on exceptionally good intuition and inner guidance.
28/10/1 – Stubbornness and helpfulness
With this number, the soul associated with this vibration wants to walk the path of harmony of opposites. This personality longs for strength, leadership and independence, but also shows a pronounced need for harmony. It is a number where the human being wants to be the center of attention, often wanting power and a leadership position. But he also wants to have recognition and approval from everyone around. These people show a pronounced tendency to somatize, because they often put their own needs aside in order to give space to their fellow human beings. For many people, he is a caregiver, source of strength and support. This number struggles internally with the inability to be weak and shows unfounded fears. When these people practice positive thinking, they can master life more easily.
37/10/1 – Creativity and self-realization
It achieves with a certain ease a balance between giving and taking as well as between activity and relaxation. This personality knows what he wants, especially early in life.
This person shows a strong interest in spirituality from an early age and has a strong mental power. Physical activity, exercise in nature and in the fresh air allow him to feel alive and clear. He also needs friendships and connections with active people.
The number 37/10/1 maintains an inner balance, and has been since the early years of her life. Professionally, these people go in the direction of health professions, medicine or business, in connection with the social sector.
46/10/1 – Independence and leadership
This number describes a personality that is particularly balanced, has a good perception of its own individuality and feels a deep connection to its needs. This person has an inner order and clarity. Although she is very fair and reflective, she does not have a good approach to the tendency to think and empathize with other people. It often happens that she wants to clarify emotion and emotion through intellectual access. For such personalities, it is healing when they learn to express their own emotions and needs without feeling that they always have to be strong. The desire to live up to the strong call for independence and freedom, and the need to be there for others, these are the polarities between which this person is embedded.
Dr. Ernestina Mazza – Author, seminar leader and coachFor 20 years I have been accompanying people in trainings, seminars and individual sessions on their way. In this blog I share my knowledge and experience with you. I want to support you in recognizing your uniqueness and living your potential.