The decision to have a child is of great importance.Because you decide for all time that your own heart runs around outside your own body.Elisabeth Stone
The mindful and livelypersonalityof the children with the life number 4 requires you to show clear presence and loving understanding.In this blog article you will find exciting and helpful impulses on how to lovingly and harmoniously shape the relationship with your child.
Personality description of children with the life number 4 to the age of twelve
Children with the life number 4 are quiet, peace-loving people who need a familiar environment to feel comfortable and secure. A strong perseverance, consistency, discipline and a pragmatic spirit are among the essential traits of these children.
Observers with high social skills Even in early childhood, these people seem very reasonable, cautious and enormously strong-willed. Although they stand out due to their pronounced social skills, they usually act cautiously and wait-and-see in relationships with peers or older people.
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Challenging character traits of children with the life number 4 to the age of twelve
A child with the life number 4 is very dutiful and often puts himself under pressure at an early age to meet his own expectations. This innate strictness towards oneself limits the spontaneity, joie de vivre and vitality of these young people. Already at primary school age, these children tend to develop rigid ideas and fixed habits. As a result, they often react hesitantly and withdraw when it comes to learning something new, exploring new horizons or accepting changes in the environment. Again and again, the feeling of not being treated honestly or not taken seriously by the people around them has a stressful effect on these children.
Empathic behavior towards adults These children have the ability to recognize how adults are doing and can clearly sense the mood of the people around them. Especially when these children feel that their environment or loved ones are exposed to stress, they tend to take responsibility at an early age. In such situations, they feel obliged to help their fellow human beings and continuously develop into small, wise adults.
Support opportunities for children with the life number 4 to the age of twelve
Loving exchange as the key to more self-confidenceIn most cases, children of 4 act dutifully and responsibly. In childhood, they tend to demand a lot from themselves and thus expose themselves to a certain pressure to perform. In addition, these children try to cope on their own in many ways. On the one hand, this trait is an expression of a certain spiritual strength, on the other hand, it favors the stubbornness of these young people and makes them seem defiant.
As parents, through loving dialogue, patience and understanding, you can get your offspring to relax and be less strict with yourself.
Personality description of the adolescent with the life number 4
These young people are always good for surprises because of their mature, wise and critical spirit. The time of finding identity is very intense and eventful for this personality. In puberty, the character traits of this life number, such as its structure and helpfulness or its sense of duty and sense of justice, sharpen and show up in a pronounced form. In addition, this life number has considerable stamina in the phase of growing up, whereby it basically strives for stability and security.
Challenging traits of the adolescent with the life number 4
Self-critical and strict towards fellow human beings In the course of puberty, adolescents with the life number 4 behave very strictly towards themselves and their environment with regard to some aspects. During this time, they tend to live out their perfectionism intensively and set the bar very high for themselves and their achievements.
Introverted search for identity The adolescent young people of 4 are not necessarily rebels or cross-border commuters. On the one hand, they seem very calm and introverted during puberty, on the other hand, they are critical, self-confident and ready to question everything towards their environment.
Support opportunities for young people with the life number 4
Promote willpower with ease For adolescents with this life number, it is essential to accept that every person has strong and weak sides. Above all, young people of 4 should recognize that you can work on your weaknesses and develop personally.
Holistic self-acceptance as the key to personal development This courageous and ambitious personality should definitely learn to accept their weaknesses during puberty and acknowledge that they are part of life.
Overall, these young people feel torn in the phase of growing up. On the one hand, they want to meet the expectations of their environment and be connected to their fellow human beings, on the other hand, they feel a strong need for withdrawal.
Thank you for your time. I hope that this blog post has helped to grasp children with the life number 4 in their uniqueness and to meet them lovingly.
The following exercise attached below from my book "Happy Children, Serene Adults" will help you strengthen your child's relaxation and serenity. The main theme of this exercise is the unfolding of joy and lightness. (Exercise only available for members of the Premium Community with Premium Newsletter, see info text below)
I am happy to learn more about you and the relationship with your child with the life number 4 in a comment. You may also want to tell us how you both fared while doing the exercise.
Sincerely,Ernestina
Dr. Ernestina Mazza – Author, seminar leader and coachFor 20 years I have been accompanying people in trainings, seminars and individual sessions on their way. In this blog I share my knowledge and experience with you. I want to support you in recognizing your uniqueness and living your potential.
Relaxation exercise for a child with the life number 4: ease
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