Find access to your inner wisdom and unfold your spirituality
Psychological numerology shows you ways to use your spiritual potential for a happy life.
Characteristics (keywords)mystical, religious, otherworldly, sensitive, self-reflective, secretive, compassionate, philosophical
Downsides (keywords)doubting, hypersensitive, resigned, isolated
Character of the life number 7
The 7er is a spiritual being, a person who carries diligence and serenity in himself. Filled with contentment, he observes life and tries to discover its invisible laws. It combines a distinct, clear intuition with an analytical mind.
People with the life number 7 experience a deep dichotomy between their tendency to manage their feelings with rationality and analytical thinking and their pronounced, sensitive perception on the other hand.
They are intellectual and profound. At first glance, they seem rather introverted and almost aristocratic. Sometimes shy and reserved, they are also understanding and sometimes perfectionist. You need a lot of time and space for self-reflection and self-knowledge.
In the course of their life path, personalities of 7 learn to have a deep, intimate dialogue with themselves. Furthermore, they have a very pronounced sensitivity and are usually concentrated on their internal processes. Their emotional life and self-reflection play an important role for them. They demand presence and attention from their fellow human beings. But they also give a lot of love and support themselves. In addition, they prove to be valuable companions due to their inner, innate wisdom.
Both the attention and understanding of this personality and his diligence and erudition may often appear as signs of pedantry and humorlessness.
Their satisfaction could also be interpreted as complacency. Often the combination of analytical mind, intuitive abilities and calm demeanor leads the 7-people to observe passively rather than actively participate; or they practice excessive seclusion rather than obliging friendliness. However, these thinkers must not become dreamers, for their extraordinary intellect and pronounced idealism depend on the kindness of others. In any case, their thoughtful reflections should be followed by deeds.
Sevens personalities are very reflective and need a lot of time for themselves and the observations of life. Since they are often concerned with the meaning of their existence, they are attracted to topics such as spirituality, religion and metaphysics. Theory and practice are equally interesting for her. Since they sometimes take a step back and observe life from the inside, they sometimes give the outward impression of being distant and cool.
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The dark side of life number 7
If the 7-person personality often feels disadvantaged and not understood and feels that her fellow human beings disappoint her and lead a "superficial" life, she tends to withdraw and reject her fellow human beings and the world itself. This dark side makes her opinionated and know-it-all. Sometimes this person is even prone to resignation and passivity.
Often these people develop an extreme demarcation behavior, which makes them seem very arrogant; They are very perfectionist and can hardly settle for mediocrity. For this reason, they are very critical and sometimes condescending towards other people. If this dark side is pronounced, then the 7 is picky in its relationships. However, once friends have been made, they can fully rely on them. For these people, the sevensome will always be there.
The life number 7 in relationships
The 7 Series has the ability to perceive and feel feelings and emotions intensively. However, he rarely shows this inner passion on the outside. In the encounter with people who are patient and want to get to know him, however, he can open up well. He needs a lot of time for himself. His mental task is to experience a constructive loneliness, so he needs an environment in great silence to be balanced. He lets himself be guided by life, but cannot easily let go of things, people and situations that accompany him on his way.
These people rarely open up to the other person and usually only when they feel that they can trust him. They open up to those people who are curious and independent.
In interpersonal relationships, the sevens are cautious. At the beginning, they often need some time and initially remain in the observer role. 7 personalities let the others act first and wait for them to approach them. They are open to deep relationships, but try to avoid superficial connections.
The number 7 is very sensitive. You can easily hurt these people by a wrong look or a thoughtless word, but they don't let it show. Rarely do these people find the courage to openly explain what they really feel.
The life number 7 in the partnership
7-person personalities often have difficulty being free and spontaneous. Due to their level-headed nature and their observational behavior, they seem aloof. It is also characterized by a deep need for freedom. They open up to a potential partner when they have the feeling that they are empathetically captured by him. Therefore, 7-person personalities are examining, cautious and doubtful when entering into a partnership relationship. These people rarely open up to the other person and usually only when they feel that they can trust him.
On the one hand, the life number 7 in a partnership is very wait-and-see and even suspicious, on the other hand, it longs to find a familiar partner or companion who is closely connected to it.
Family theme of the original family of life number 7
The central theme of life number 7 is letting go of old and limiting beliefs and behavioral patterns of parents and other ancestors.
The 7-man understands that the events and experiences in his life, even if they are unpleasant and painful, have a deeper meaning for his spiritual development. He understands that everyone, including members of his family, is allowed to develop at their own pace and that he must be patient in this regard. In addition, he should realize that he cannot save everyone.
The LZ 7 does not really feel that it belongs to the family system, it often feels that it is on the margins of the system. Although she can assume her role and her place, a basic feeling of foreignness always remains in her.
Development-inhibiting beliefs of life number 7
"I don't see the connections of this situation and have to think about it. I don't act without understanding. I want to do the right thing."
7-person personalities sometimes suffer from perfectionism, a trait they can look at with self-irony and serenity. Very often they seek the absolute truth and develop a certain rigidity along the way. They become very top-heavy and act cut off from their own feelings. In doing so, they look for the ideal that gives them the feeling that everything they do is right.
In a way, these people strive for a universal truth that allows them to see the deep meaning of life. That's why these personalities sometimes feel lonely and isolated, especially in phases of life when they are emotionally overwhelmed. It is then difficult for them to get in touch with their fellow human beings. If they remain trapped in this search for absolute truth, they become victims of their perfectionism and critical attitude towards the environment.
"I want to understand life and see its meaning for myself."
They realize that there are different paths in life. They also see that all people are doing their best and that each of us is more or less trapped in our own patterns, neediness and fears. From this stage of development, they perceive their fellow human beings better, feel the same respect for everyone and develop a reverent respect for every form of life.
"I seek the absolute truth."
A second challenge, or a pattern of their personality, is the search for intellectual categories that can describe the world to them. In the course of their lives, however, they give up this search. They turn away from intellectualization and devote themselves to the intuitive sensing of spiritual laws.
"I know what's right and find the mistakes."
People with this belief should pay attention to their critical – sometimes downright fault-searching – attitude. It is essential for these people to develop a certain acceptance and to let others be as they are, based on the assumption that everyone is doing their best and has a hurt inner child. This does not excuse the behavior or intentions of others, but makes the sevens freer. In addition, it gives them the conscious decision who to let into their lives. They find their inner peace and constructive loneliness when they deal with the quality of gratitude.
For the 7 series it is liberating to recognize life as a big stage and to look at people due to their keen powers of observation without judging them, but rather to recognize the background of their actions and to show understanding for them.
"I don't want to lose my independence."
In the context of interpersonal relationships, these people long for deep connection and belonging. They seek the feeling of harmony, balance and closeness in being together with a partner. Between this longing and its fulfillment, however, the fear of opening up and trusting stands in their way. Their high ideals and deep fears of being hurt do not allow these people to open themselves to fullness and fulfillment in love.
"I want to protect myself and seek my peace."
This belief is similar to the first belief we have already described. He expresses other nuances of the strong need for independence of this number. These people tend to take on a marginal role and observe and analyze the environment and others from this position. If they are not in danger of being hurt – then they manage to open up wide on an emotional level.
Furthermore, they often tend to withdraw with these beliefs. In many cases, this happens without announcing it to their fellow human beings in good time. This unannounced withdrawal often makes it difficult for them to relate to their fellow human beings, because the other person does not see any comprehensible reason to be able to classify their behavior in this regard.
It is often difficult for them to understand that it is necessary in relation to others and even essential in relation to the partner in a couple relationship to communicate their own needs and the reasons for their own behavior.
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Self-confidently living the life number 7
Consciously perceive the need for freedom and rest.
People with this life number are by nature very thoughtful and meditative personalities who observe well. In addition, they are able to perceive the finest nuances, in interpersonal relationships and in the people themselves, by means of their quick comprehension and their keen observer spirit. So people of 7 are very sensitive and calm in a certain way. They have a lively mind and enjoy their personal journeys inwards, especially if they have already had positive experiences with it in childhood. Because of this, it is of utmost importance for these personalities to regularly take time for introspection.
Communicate your needs openly and become active in communication.
People with the life number 7 are usually good listeners and advisors in communication. However, they find it difficult to talk openly about their feelings and needs and to reveal their own inner life. For these people, it is an important, even salvific help to practice consciously, to talk about their own feelings in exchange with their fellow human beings and above all with their partner. In addition, it is extremely helpful for them to learn to consciously talk about what is going on inside them in conversations with trusted people and to become more active in communication.
They should dare to let go of their passivity, to let people get closer to them and to develop a playful approach to others as well as to life in general. Opening themselves to the outside world, first to their partner, to their trusted fellow human beings and finally to everyone, offers them the opportunity to make their inner wisdom available to others and to have the precious experience of constructive closeness.
Life task of the life number 7
These personalities should learn:
- Dealing with loneliness and viewing it as a positive resource.
- To find one's own spirituality and to live in a down-to-earth way.
- Let go of their idealistic ideas towards fellow human beings and life in order to participate in adult life.
- To find courage in relationships to open up, despite the fear of being hurt.
- To harmoniously combine gut feeling and mind.
Recommendation for self-development
- Avoid too sharp a critical attitude towards fellow human beings.
- Develop positive, encouraging, appreciative communication.
- Feeling gratitude for the diversity of life and the positive side of one's own life.
- Engage in gentle movement in nature in order to feel yourself well and to bring your own often restless mind to peaceful thoughts.
- The need to realize everything rationally, to let go.
- Recognizing that on a certain level, everything that happens has its meaning.
Video on life number 7
Characteristics and oscillation of life number 7
Male archetype of life number 7teachers, wise men
Male shadow archetype of life number 7 Hermit
Female archetype of life number 7 Wise
Female shadow archetype of life number 7nun
Virtue of life number 7 Wisdom
Spiritual mission of the life number 7 Healing emotions, connecting heart and head.
Affirmations for the life number 7I rest peacefully in my midst.
Bach flower mixture for the life number 7 Crab Apple, Gentian, Honeysuckle, Larch, Centaury
Australian bush flowers for life number 7 Waratah, Bottle Brush, Bush Iris, Dog Rose
Gemstones for life number 7 Amethyst, tanzanite
Color for life number 7 Violet
Root numbers
16/7 – Independence and sense of responsibility
These individuals show a pronounced sensitivity and need a lot of time alone. Already in childhood they prove to be independent and are loners. They always try to cope on their own and solve problems on their own. On the outside, they are very helpful and loving listeners. They treat people with care and are extremely responsible and tolerant towards others.
The person with the number 16/7 has a contradiction inside: On the one hand, he wants to be present for his fellow human beings and support them, because he is very social. He is well received by them and has a positive charisma. On the other hand, he also needs a lot of time and rest for himself. This dichotomy sometimes brings the personality into an imbalance. As a result, it often overlooks the fact that it is exceeding its limits. For this life number, physical exercise and contact with nature are indispensable in order to feel good.
25/7 – Spirituality and the need for freedom
Empathy and the need for harmony are characteristic of this person. Through her warm and loving nature and charisma, she can take an important place in the family over time and bring her loved ones to spirituality.
Often these personalities are important, inspiring companions for the family, the circle of friends or the professional environment at a young age and always provide assistance in solving problems of all kinds. They are good advisors, but need a lot of freedom and time for themselves.
They alternate between times of withdrawal or reflection and times of communication or connection with their social environment, especially with their circle of friends and family.
It is a fundamental developmental step for this life number to learn tolerance and to let others be as they are, without wanting to force solutions. She must learn to trust that the right time for change will come for everyone.
34/7 – Creative power and self-realization urge
These people are radiant, loving and serene. They are always diligent and good organizers. Because of their leadership qualities, they can inspire and motivate other people. They not only find time for work, but also enjoy life in all its facets, often retiring to rest.
For the person with the number 34/7 it is very important to find time for fun, joy and exercise, even if this is not understood by the environment in his childhood. Usually he loves every expression of dance, likes to be in company, enjoys the little things in life and can show a childlike enthusiasm for existence. He has the ability to differentiate himself well and therefore sometimes seems very cool to extremely needy people. Nevertheless, he can perceive others intensely and is willing to help and support them.
These people are not easily thrown off balance by life problems and always find the positive side of every difficulty. They somatize easily, but can heal through relaxation and exercise. In this case, they are advised to do things that give them pleasure.
43/7 – Structure and adventurous spirit
This number shows a personality that is already very mature, self-confident and hardworking in childhood. Early on, she develops the pattern of taking responsibility for others and always having to be present. But she finds it difficult to relax and enjoy life. Because she often perceives this as a loss of time and lack of productivity.
People with this number of roots are emotional beings who carry enormous love and empathy. In case of injuries, they withdraw and need a lot of time to let the emotional wounds heal. Dealing with conflicts and talking about themselves are two important developmental steps for these personalities.
Movement and travel allow them to find themselves and help them to a certain lightness. Physical activities and trips to other countries offer them new perspectives and support them in freeing themselves from the old.
If they are able to break out of the routine of everyday life, it is possible that these people, who have a quick comprehension and a good assertiveness, understand their own entrenched patterns and can steer life very quickly in a new direction.